Car Games

We are rapidly becoming "one of those" families who virtually live in our mini-van. At least it feels that way, since to go any where seems to involve the packing of snacks, drinks, blankets, and books in the car, whether this be to the grocery store, school or a visit to grandparents. And I have definitely caught myself think of the van as one more room to clean.

That being said, I don't necessarily think that because we spend time together as a family in the car multiple times during the week (day) is necessarily a bad thing. We're all trapped in there , and while Mary Ann has kind of started doing her own thing by reading a book or two or three, for the most part it's pretty nice to be in there together. There's lots of discussions that come up, the most impressive recently has been multiple re-tellings of Romeo and Juliet, thanks to Mitzi mainly for gifting a CD with Taylor Swift's song (which by the way gets replayed about 4-5 times in a row each time it comes up in the queue, and this is per Peter's request). Usually the discussion ends with us telling each other that the monk and Romeo and Juliet are all pretty stupid and if everyone had just calmed down a bit and talked the whole tragedy could have been avoided. But far be it from a virtual soccer mom and a few precocious grade school kids (and toddler) to rewrite Shakespeare.

This might gross out a few, but another activity in the car we engage in is dead skunk bingo. This is played when we drive to school on the aptly named Dead Skunk Road which is known to most Lee Summitians as Lee Summit Road. But the road was re-christened because of the presence of a dead skunk on the side of the road. I usually don't point out the roadkill I see, because, well it's gross and a little sad. But something about this dead skunk just kind of tickled my funny bone (which is a favorite phrase of Rose's, thanks to Grandma). One day last November I was driving just Mary Ann and she seemed a little down, so I told her about the dead skunk. She too was diverted by the idea of this skunk. The next day with all three in the car and Aunt Mitzi, I was able to slow down enough that I could point it out to them. Of course this backfired because Rose saw it, but Mary Ann delayed looking out her window, due to reading, and wound up missing the fascinating sight of this deceased animal. This resulted in 24 hours of bragging rights for Rose about how she "saw the dead skunk, and Mommy you weren't going to fast for me to see it." Luckily, the dead skunk remained by the side of the road for nearly 3 months, giving us all ample opportunities to see it and also note how long it had been there. That particular skunk has now disappeared, but a new one has now appeared to keep us entertained. And Peter makes sure to ask if we are going to be taking the road and seeing the dead skunk in the morning.